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READ TIME: 7 MINUTES | 13 MAY, 2026 | READ ON PHILHSC.COM

A month ago, during planning for a leadership session, my colleague commented, ‘They don’t seem to find joy in their work.’

I replied, ‘What if they’ve never experienced joy?’

The room went quiet as we thought about the consequence of that being true.

The term joy comes up a lot in leadership. We tell people to pursue it and we write it into keynote addresses, but in that moment, one question was front of mind:

Could you define what joy means to you?

Not happiness. Joy.

When I ask the same question to leaders, I get a pause. Then a few attempts that circle back to happiness. They talk about promotions, successful exits and maybe their child’s first steps. These are good and real things but not quite the answer.

Most leaders can name what makes them happy. Almost none can define joy with any precision. And yet we’re told we should pursue it, even race to find and hold onto it.

I used to think the difference between happiness and joy was minor, maybe even linear or semantic. But I’ve come to believe that they play a more crucial role in leadership than we might think and here’s where I’ve landed.

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